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10 Mom-Approved Tips For Raising Confident Kids

As parents, we want our children to be confident and secure with themselves. We hope that our children have the confidence to go out into the world and live wonderful, fulfilling lives. Self confidence has been linked to better results in developing healthy relationships, achieving goals, and general well-being. Confidence and security with one’s self also leads to being able to acknowledge and accept both the positive and the negative aspects of who we are without feeling superior or inferior to others.

So, how do we raise our children to be confident? It’s important for parents to understand that confidence is built on security and stability. After all, most of us know firsthand just how difficult it is to show up at our best when we are in survival mode. One way we can give our children security and stability is through a healthy environment at home.

Here are 10 powerful tips you can begin using today to build confidence and security in your children:

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1. Give Your Child Your Undivided Attention

Avoid communicating while your eyes are glued to the TV, text messages, or with grunts from behind the computer screen. Receiving your undivided attention will help your child build trust as well as self-confidence.

2. Allow Your Child To SolveHis/Her Own Problems

As hard as it is for us to watch our children struggle, its important that we do not immediatelyjump in and rescueour child when hes faced with a challenge. Kids are smarter and more creative than we give them credit for. Yes, offer advice, but honor them if they choose to try their own way. Let them know you have confidence in them figuring things out. This will encourage them to problem solve and build stress coping skills.

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3. Acknowledge Your Child’s Emotions

Validate both her positive and negative feelings instead of trying to convince her she shouldnt feel that way. Encouraging your child to accept her emotions, including anger, sadness, disappointment, and frustration as normal, will help her respond to her feelings and face the world with a healthier and more realistic view.

4. Discipline To Teach, Not To Hurt

Instead of only expressing your anger and leaving him with a punishment, explain to your child the lessons behind the discipline. You want him to understand why the choices he made were poor so he will know how to make better decisions if faced with something similar again in the future. Punishment alone will simply teach him to hide his mistakes from you.

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5. Give Your Child Age Appropriate Responsibilities

Even simple tasks such as making his bed, feeding the family pet, putting away his toys, and taking out the trash once a week will help your childlearn that he is animportant, contributing member of the family with abilities others can count on.

6. Encourage Your Child To Enjoy Time Alone

Alone time empowers kids to truly enjoy being creative in the moment as well as encourage self-sufficiency. Kids who learn this are able to spend time on their own without feeling sadness, rejection, or panic. For younger kids, alone time is when they are able to relax or entertain themselves without help from parents and caregivers.

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7. Avoid Shaming Your Child Over His Struggles

Its very important for your child to understand that his struggles do not define him, nor do they make him a failure or a bad person. Build his confidence by identifying and praising his strengths, and then, without judgment, help him find solutions to overcome or cope with his challenges and give plenty of emotional support.

8. Praise Your Child’s Specific Efforts and Accomplishments

Celebrating your child winning the race or getting straight As is wonderful, but keep in mind that its just as important to acknowledge shes earned her victories because she trained daily without fail or studied diligently all semester. This will also help your child establish a growth and improvement mindset as opposed to a purely win or lose mindset.

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9. Be A Source Of Calm Confidence

When your child is struck by panic or looks at you with fear in her adorable eyes, it is crucial that you do not reflect fear back at her. This will only increase her freak-out level. Show her by example that better decisions and performance can be achieved by stepping back, taking a deep breath, and maintaining a calm and clear mind.

10. Admit And Apologize When You Make Mistakes

You are your child’s best teacher, so your most effective teaching tool is the example you show them. Show your child that making mistakes is a part of the learning process for everyone. Mistakes do not equal failure if a lesson is learned, because what we take away from it can be used to make us better, smarter, and stronger. You are the key to raising confident kids!

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What are your favorite confidence-building strategies that youve practiced with your own children? Let us know in the comments below!

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Hospital Gives Preemie Hippo A Stuffed Animal That Looks Like Her, Then They Become Inseparable

When Fiona the tiny brown hippo was born, she didn’t expect to become an overnight sensation.

The small baby hippo was born sixweeks early in the Cincinnati Zoo and, as a preemie, she needed intensive around-the-clock care to stay healthy and grow.

She gained fans and followers, who watched every documented moment of the preemie hippo’s journey, from her feeding sessions to her first bath.

Now, a nearby children’s hospital is rewarding the little fighter with a special surprise.

In the video below, posted on February 3, 2017, Fiona the preemie hippo receives a large NICU package from the Cincinnati Children’s Hospital Medical Center, similar to the ones they give their own clients after their stays.

The massive surprise care package contains acustom-made book, a few superhero capes, a pacifier, and a large stuffed hippo about the size of Fionaherself.

Since the baby hippo is a preemie, just like their clients, and lives so close to the hospital, it only madesense to provide Fiona with an NICU care package too.

To take a look at the care package for yourself and to see how Fiona takes to all her surprise goodies, especially her new stuffed hippo toy, check out the video below!

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Mom Gives Birth To Healthy Baby, Then Grandma Looks In Between Newborns Legs To See The Gender

Kyle and Danielle Williams thought they had it all figured out back in 2015. Danielle was certain that she would give birth to a happy, healthy baby girl.

An ultrasound revealed the gender around four months into her pregnancy. The entire family gathered pink clothing and toys to welcome the tiny tot into the world.

Then Danielle gave birth. Doctors handed the mom a tiny newborn, but there was something a little unexpected: the child was a boy.

“I was shocked, to say the least,” Danielle told Inside Edition.

But her reaction did not compare to grandma’s. Grandma went to change the little one’s diaper, but when she spotted what was between baby’s legs, she was in awe.

“Oh my goodness!” she exclaimed. “You guys are not joking!”

Everyone in the family was stunned. How could doctors have gotten this completely wrong?

“We were told it wasn’t the best picture when she printed it for us, but she assured us she saw at the very beginning of the ultrasound that it was in fact a baby sister for our daughter,” Kyle said of the ultrasound.

Sonogram images can be blurry; incorrect gender determinations occur more often than people think.

“I kept looking back and forth to my wife, not saying anything to her. She frantically asked me, ‘What’s wrong? What’s wrong?’ and all I could say to her was, ‘Well, there’s a bit of a surprise,’” Kyle recalled.

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